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		<title>Early Applications are way up and definitely the way to go</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Dec 2010 11:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Schools are filling more of their classes from the Early Action and Early Decision pools than ever before. See this article.  Students should apply to at least a couple of early action schools to try to secure an early admit to a college of interest. Early Action is often an easier route to gain acceptance. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=448&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Schools are filling more of their classes from the Early Action and Early Decision pools than ever before. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/12/17/early-admissions-decision_n_798239.html">See this article.</a>  Students should apply to at least a couple of early action schools to try to secure an early admit to a college of interest. Early Action is often an easier route to gain acceptance. For many schools, particularly ‘rolling’ schools, acceptance standards only get harder as time goes on.  And, psychologically, there is nothing better than having an acceptance or two in one’s back pocket for easing the anxiety that can come from having to wait for college decisions until April 1<sup>st</sup>. Early Decision is the easiest admit and best choice to make if a student has a clear favorite college and doesn’t have to compare financial packages. A student who applies Early Decision and is making a commitment to attend a school if accepted will get extra consideration.  <a href="http://www.citytowninfo.com/career-and-education-news/articles/early-applicants-more-likely-to-gain-admission-to-colleges-10122003">See this article.</a></p>
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		<title>Do colleges really need 30,000 applications to find 1,500 great students?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 18:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article reinforces that applicants need to try to distinguish themselves in the application pool, by applying early decision, offering a ‘hook’, and/or demonstrating sincere interest in the school, ideally  all of the above.  See 11/5/10 Article by Eric Hoover on “Application Inflation- When is Enough Enough?” http://nyti.ms/9rcfJZ This article is the first of a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=434&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This article reinforces that applicants need to try to distinguish themselves in the application pool, by applying early decision, offering a ‘hook’, and/or demonstrating sincere interest in the school, ideally  all of the above.  See 11/5/10 Article by Eric Hoover on “Application Inflation- When is Enough Enough?”</em> <a href="http://nyti.ms/9rcfJZ">http://nyti.ms/9rcfJZ</a><em></em></p>
<p><em>This article is the first of a collaboration between The New York Times and <a title="The Chornicle of Higher Education" href="http://chronicle.com/section/Home/5">The Chronicle of Higher Education</a>, a daily news source for professors and administrators. Eric Hoover is a senior writer for The Chronicle covering admissions.</em></p>
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		<title>Which Standardized Tests should you take and who wants what?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 21:44:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Standardized testing and score reporting choices have become very complicated.  Students should carefully read the testing section of college admissions websites to learn test requirements. Which tests to take? Students typically begin preparation for standardized tests during their junior year, often well before they have selected their colleges.  To be covered for any college, students should take either the SAT or ACT.   Many students are familiar [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=402&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/cawktewv.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-410" title="CAWKTEWV" src="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/08/cawktewv.jpg?w=500" alt=""   /></a>Standardized testing and score reporting choices have become very complicated.  Students should carefully read the testing section of college admissions websites to learn test requirements.</p>
<p><strong>Which tests to take?</strong></p>
<p>Students typically begin preparation for standardized tests during their junior year, often well before they have selected their colleges.  To be covered for any college, students should take either the SAT or ACT.   Many students are familiar with the SAT, but fewer with the ACT.  Every four year college in the US that requires an SAT test will take the ACT as a substitute.   There is a major misconception that SAT’s are preferred by admissions- this is not the case.  You may want to take a practice test for the ACT and SAT in order to determine which is a better test for you and then begin preparing for that one. (Practice tests are available at no charge from Summit Tutoring in the Boston area, <a href="http://www.mytutor.com/students/practice-tests/ma">click here for dates</a>.) Some students take both the ACT and SAT to compare scores. </p>
<p>Some of the most competitive colleges also require or recommend Subject Tests.  Therefore, some students should consider taking at least two Subject Tests.  Two Subject tests are the maximum number required by any US colleges as of 8-2010, some colleges used to request three. Read this <a href="http://www.examiner.com/x-20753-DC-College-Admissions-Examiner~y2010m8d7-Harvard-Georgetown-and-others-change-SAT-Subject-Test-policies-for-201011">article</a> on testing changes recently posted for 2011 graduates.  Note: Almost every college will take the ACT as a substitute for both the Subject Tests and SAT, and if you plan to take the ACT you may not need to take the Subject Tests.</p>
<p>The standardized tests required by colleges have been changing quite a bit over the last few years.  Some colleges, such as Hamilton and, recently, Colorado College, to name just a few, allow the applicant to submit their choice of a combination of AP, Subject Test and/or components of SAT or ACT test scores.  Other colleges are joining a growing number of Score Optional schools, allowing applicants to choose whether to submit standardized test scores at all.  Refer to this <a href="http://www.fairtest.org/university/optional">list of Score Optional Schools</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Which scores to send?</strong></p>
<p>Students should carefully read the testing and score reporting requirements of each college to which they are applying to decide which tests to send and when .<em>“In spring of 2009, the College Board approved Score Choice, an important change to the previous SAT score-reporting policy. This new policy gives students the option to choose the SAT scores by sitting (test date) and SAT Subject Test scores by individual test that they send to colleges, at no additional cost. Score Choice is optional, and if students choose not to use it, all scores will be sent automatically.” </em> Applicants should be aware that many colleges independently choose to override the Score Choice option offered by the College Board and instead <span style="text-decoration:underline;">require </span>applicants to send all of their SAT scores. Here is an <a href="http://professionals.collegeboard.com/testing/sat-reasoning/scores/policy">article to further explain score choice</a> and a <a href="http://professionals.collegeboard.com/profdownload/sat-score-use-practices-list.pdf">listing of reporting requirements by college</a> from College Board as of 11/09.<em> </em></p>
<p>When sending ACT’s, you should consider whether your schools &#8220;superscore&#8221;<strong> </strong>as it is<strong> </strong>becoming more prevalent among colleges.  For years, colleges have been selecting the highest sub scores of different test dates from the SAT.  Recently, more and more colleges are combining the best sub scores from different ACT test dates—see article on <a href="http://voices.washingtonpost.com/answer-sheet/sat-and-act/superscoring-act-vs-sat.html">superscoring</a>.  Some of the colleges reported to superscore the ACT include: Boston College, Brown, Northeastern, Pomona, Rochester Institute of Technology, Tufts,  U of Connecticut and U Delaware.  Refer to this <a href="http://www.collegeadmissionspartners.com/college-testing/colleges-superscore-act">article</a> for a more comprehensive list of schools thought to superscore.</p>
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		<title>Gap Year- A growing trend</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 01:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Taking a Gap Year is increasingly becoming the hot topic with graduating seniors.  European students have been taking them for years, US students are just catching on and it’s becoming more acceptable.  Parents used to worry that students who took a break would never return to schools. On the contrary, colleges say students perform a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=388&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/images.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-393" title="images" src="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/images.jpg?w=500" alt=""   /></a>Taking a Gap Year is increasingly becoming the hot topic with graduating seniors.  European students have been taking them for years, US students are just catching on and it’s becoming more acceptable.  Parents used to worry that students who took a break would never return to schools. On the contrary, colleges say students perform a lot better after they’ve taken time off.  High achieving students, who have been juggling demanding academic programs and activities schedules for years, may choose the Gap Year as a way to recover from ‘burn out’.  Contributing to the trend, MIT, Harvard, Princeton among other schools are encouraging accepted students to consider a Gap year.  Some underachieving students take a Gap Year to mature and get ‘ready’ for college.   Others use the Gap Year as an opportunity to explore interests so they might have a better understanding of their potential major in college or career path.  See a recent <a href="http://www.boston.com/news/education/higher/articles/2010/07/19/burned_out_students_take_timeout_before_starting_college/">Boston Globe</a> article on Gap Year .</p>
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		<title>College Admit Rates- Trend</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 17:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finally the number of high school graduates has leveled off, yet against all predictions, college admit rates are lower than ever—Why and what does this mean for applicants? For the last few years, many college admissions reps predicted the admissions frenzy would ease as the number of high school graduates leveled off.  Colleges expected to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=368&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/images-2maze.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-380" title="images (2)maze" src="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/images-2maze.jpg?w=500" alt=""   /></a>Finally the number of high school graduates has leveled off, yet against all predictions, college admit rates are lower than ever—Why and what does this mean for applicants?</em></strong></p>
<p>For the last few years, many college admissions reps predicted the admissions frenzy would ease as the number of high school graduates leveled off.  Colleges expected to see the number of applications decreasing and competitiveness easing in 2010, after witnessing a 15 year climb in population.  Well known industry experts predicted students would find it easier to be admitted to even the most competitive schools.  <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/09/education/09admissions.html">Refer to this 2008 analysis in the New York Times.</a></p>
<p>However, in 2010 we see admit rates  lower than ever for colleges.  Harvard, Stanford, Brown, Columbia, Yale and Princeton were all in the single digits and most schools across the board experienced lower than ever admit rates. Why?  While the number of high school grads has leveled off as predicted, it seems more high school grads are choosing to apply to college, perhaps seeing the value of education in a down economy.  Likewise, international applications are flooding the market; apps from China are up 21% and from India up 9% over 2008 figures.  The ease of online applications has caused a surge in the number of apps as well, as students submit more applications per person than ever, some to as many as 12 to 15 schools. See related posts in articles in <a href="http://thechoice.blogs.nytimes.com/2010-admissions-tally">The New York Times</a>, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/04/01/college-admissions-statis_n_521627.html">Huffington Post</a> and <a href="http://chronicle.com/article/Number-of-Foreign-Students-in/49142">The Chronicle.</a></p>
<p>What does this mean for applicants?  With so many applications pouring in from highly qualified individuals, students need to create a balanced list of schools and find ways to stand out.  Your counselor should help you develop a list with a sound range of safety to stretch schools.  Of course, set your sites high, focus on your dream school(s), but also  fall in love with and pay attention to your 50:50 and safety schools.  Personalize the application process to each school: 1) Write thoughtful essays revealing yourself 2) Do your research and show why you want to attend the school in supplemental essays and interviews, and 3) If possible, connect with the admissions rep from your geographic area, a professor and/or active alumni to demonstrate your interest in their school.</p>
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		<title>Decision Month</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 14:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[College Counseling Partners guides parents and students through all aspects of the college admissions process. Identifying and applying to college is one of the most exciting times for a family; it can also be one of the most stressful.   Our goal is to make the college process as enjoyable as possible as we work together to find the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=104&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>College Counseling Partners guides parents and students through all aspects of the college admissions process. Identifying and applying to college is one of the most exciting times for a family; it can also be one of the most stressful.   Our goal is to make the college process as enjoyable as possible as we work together to find the right college match.   We customize our approach to suit the needs of your family and especially your teen, by focusing on the following:</p>
<p><strong><em>School Selection<br />
</em></strong>Matching student’s interests, talents and accomplishments to the right colleges, developing a college list based upon student’s unique qualities and goals with a balance of “reach,” “probable” and “safety” schools, suggesting productive college trips, and preparing student for college interviews.</p>
<p><strong><em>Student Assessment &amp; Positioning<br />
</em></strong>Explore opportunities that maximize student’s strengths and options to make applications stand out, connect students when possible with admissions representatives, brainstorm essay topics with student, and edit essays with student.</p>
<p><strong><em>Application Logistics<br />
</em></strong>Develop a timeline and manage application details from start to finish with student.</p>
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		<title>College Decisions- My Child isn&#8217;t even consulting me?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 16:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My child is making one of the first major decisions of his life and he won&#8217;t even talk with me about it! During the ‘decision’ month between April 1 and May 1, when students are making final choices about which college they want to attend, parents often feel left out in the cold. Students frequently hold their [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=259&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>My child is making one of the first major decisions of his life and he won&#8217;t even talk with me about it!</em></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/choices-22.jpg"></a><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/images-gumby-chooseing-21.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="images gumby chooseing (2)" src="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/05/images-gumby-chooseing-21.jpg?w=123&#038;h=98" alt="" width="123" height="98" /></a>During the ‘decision’ month between April 1 and May 1, when students are making final choices about which college they want to attend, parents often feel left out in the cold. Students frequently hold their cards very close to their vests barely revealing their thoughts about which college they prefer and why. While parents are frantic making elaborate charts comparing each feature of the various colleges, students seem non- plus about it all. The fact is students are down-right relieved to finally know they are actually loved by some colleges. Students who have been basket cases consumed by self doubt are suddenly confident and calm. And so, the tide has turned. Colleges have kept students waiting for months to hear whether they are admitted. But now with the ball is in their court, students are happy to hold onto it as long as they can. Whether consciously or unconsciously students may feel that parents and colleges can wait to hear what their decision is. I can’t tell you the number of students who finally let the world know their decision just minutes before the due date of May 1. Express mail or hand deliver of the deposit check to college is common place as a result.</p>
<p><a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/frustration.jpg"><img class="alignleft" title="frustration" src="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/frustration.jpg?w=106&#038;h=124" alt="" width="106" height="124" /></a>As parents, it is natural to feel frustrated, and to think we raised you and know a lot about what is best for you, how could you not want our input? And, if we are making some or a substantial investment in your education, we deserve input. But, beware of this mindset. It will come back to haunt you if you try to impact their decision. Many teens this age are asserting their independence and beginning to chart their own course- this mindset is what gives them the ability to successfully transition to college. If you make it clear which path you deem is best, there is a reasonable chance your teen will take the alternative road to make it their own. Additionally, you want them to own their college choice, because when they hit bumps along the way you don’t want them throwing <a href="http://sidmcclure.files.wordpress.com/2010/04/images.jpg"></a>it back in your face that you made them choose the wrong college.</p>
<p>If your child won’t talk to you, what you can do as parents to help your child make an educated decision?</p>
<p>Insist that your student attend Admitted Student Events at their top choice schools. Ideally attend an Admitted Student Day on the college campus. These can be enjoyable and informative half day or all day events for students and parents. Most colleges will roll out the red carpet to try to woo students. Student Panels share stories about school traditions and the social scene on campus. Professors might teach mini classes to showcase academics. The President or Dean will address the crowd. Students tour the dorms and test out the food in the cafeteria, all critical considerations of course.</p>
<p>If time or money prohibits your student from traveling to the campus, then find an Admitted Student session in your geographic area. Most colleges offer local opportunities to help families learn more about the opportunities offered at their school. Alumni often host events in or around metropolitan areas and in some cases admissions reps and perhaps some faculty or administrators drive or fly in for the event.</p>
<p>Additionally, encourage your student to talk with their college counselor and any students and alumni in your area who attended the colleges they are considering.</p>
<p>Finally, parents of course should insist on a discussion of the parameters you feel are non-negotiable. Finances often fall into this category. Here’s where your spread sheet may be especially valuable, showing what you are willing to pay toward tuition, room and board, flights home and perhaps any potential trade off of dollars spent on undergrad versus funds available for grad school. Additionally, there are countless other situations that might require you to set parameters on your student’s decision making ability, including concerns you might have about their emotional or physical health.</p>
<p>Bottomline: Accept that your student may be tight lipped as they process their college choices and that they may make everyone wait for a decision until the eleventh hour. Insist that they avail themselves of opportunities that will help them in their decision making process. And, as much as possible let students make their own decision so that they will own it for the future.</p>
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		<title>Wait List</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 14:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wait List&#8230;.now what? Students check their mail daily for months looking for the decision of “yes” or “no” from colleges, but then what happens when they are told, “waitlist”? Colleges accept students they want on campus based on their academic stats and their activities and attributes. They deny those who don’t make the cut. And, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=sidmcclure.wordpress.com&#038;blog=13319284&#038;post=235&#038;subd=sidmcclure&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Students check their mail daily for months looking for the decision of “yes” or “no” from colleges, but then what happens when they are told, “waitlist”? Colleges accept students they want on campus based on their academic stats and their activities and attributes. They deny those who don’t make the cut. And, waitlist those who are admissible who they would really like to have on campus, if they only had enough beds. If a student really wants to attend the school that waitlisted him/her and is willing to wait to hear yeah or nay, then they need to communicate their level of interest to the college. Read any and all instructions provided by the college as to how to do this, i.e. return a form by a certain date, write a letter, and the like. To increase your odds of being admitted off the waitlist, the best thing you can say is “if you take me, I will come.” Communicate this message to the Admissions Rep who covers your high school, your high school counselor (who in some cases may be willing to call the college), and  an influential person or alum who might contact the college on your behalf. What else can you do? Send the college evidence of anything about you that has changed since you applied that makes you a stronger candidate. For example, a copy of an award you won, better grades you earned, an outstanding paper you wrote, an article from your newspaper that describes a program you recently ran, or an additional significant teacher recommendation. Then, after you have made your case with your waitlist school, turn your full attention to the colleges that have accepted you. Choose the one that is the best match for you and deposit there. There is no guarantee that your waitlist school will ever even go to their waitlist, and if they do, you are only one of many students hoping to hear you are admitted. This year waitlists are longer than ever, many schools such as Duke have up to twice as many students on their waitlist as in their freshman class. See this <a href="http://thechoice.blogs.nytimes.com/tag/duke-university">article</a> from the New York Times.</p>
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